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Welcome to "Un Slut," a column about the toxic culture of bullying and slut shaming by Emily Lindin, founder of The Un Slut Project, director of "Un Slut: A Documentary Film," and author of "Un Slut: A Diary and a Memoir."We grow up learning that a woman’s sexuality must be carefully controlled by someone other than the woman herself.
It’s one of the reasons we’re still so uncomfortable acknowledging female masturbation. But your sexuality is not one of those things, and it’s time to stop acting like it is.
Hookup culture: The end of civilization, or the biggest NBD ever? But is this sampling of guys really representative of the majority of young people on Tinder?
If you’ve read a single article about dating apps lately, you are well primed to believe it’s the former. And is there any actual evidence to say that having a lot of sex through apps is, in fact, “bad”? Zhana Vrangalova, the renowned sex researcher who recently gave the TEDx talk “Is Casual Sex Bad for You? “There’s a trait known as sociosexual orientation, which measures how oriented a person is toward casual sex.
Neither choice at all easy or desirable, I felt trapped. By the time I got my period that month, my “experimenting” with casual sex was officially over.When I was 17, a friend and I promised to lose our virginity within the year.We saw sex glamorized on TV and in music and heard popular peers talking about it as an amazing experience. I believed And so I lost my virginity to a stranger.But it felt weird and fake and, as much as I wanted to, I couldn’t.This sexual narrative was supposed to assert my autonomy, but I felt anything but empowered after a condom mishap.